When you know your worth, you can make decisions that give you more control over your life, making it a great life you design.
One reason could be because you want to live a life that is based on giving value to others.
People who have a high desire to help others understand that theirs is a life of contribution that must come from a place of empowerment.
So they consciously look to improve their outlook based on a higher knowledge of themselves.
You have a better understanding of yourself when you know your worth.
When you want to change your life, you take actions that will bring about positive change.
Change If You Need To
It is a great person who sees that there is a shortfall in his or her capabilities and make the decision to change.
They decide to do in acknowledgement that in order to contribute to the lives of others, change is necessary.
There is nothing more generous.
Reaching such a decision shows the heart of the person and comes from an inner compulsion to help others.
That is a gift that not too many people have.
A gift that pushes them to improve themselves in order to give to others.
Know Your Worth
What you do and how you act should not be based on how other feel about you.
Your actions must be based on your self worth and what you think about yourself.
When you know who you are, you do not allow others to disrespect you, at least not more than once.
You don’t have to get angry about the situation.
Other people are free to think and feel as they do.
You must not be the one to accept any kind of behavior that is disrespectful and demeaning.
So if you think that is what you are receiving do something about it.
Know what it feels like to have others appreciate you and assess the situation.
When you do, what you arrive at will determine your actions.
You either place yourself where others appreciate you for who you are or you move away.
Choose Where You Land
When you first meet them you may not know who people are.
But once they show you who they really are, it is the decision time.
You stay if you are appreciated or you go to where you are.
The decision is always yours to make.
But it is always easier to make the right one when you know your worth.
Always value yourself in the best way and stop looking up to the valuation of others.
Your Valuation Is Prime
The value others place on you is non of your business.
When you know your worth, you are in the driver’s seat of your life.
Drive it well and you will have the best life you can.
If you think your valuation is not in line with your ambitions, then you can do something about it.
But that must come from you and not from someone who does not know you.
There are people you can trust to help you make the right decision.
In the end however, it is up to you to decide.
If your valuation is not up to scratch and you know that you want to do something bigger in your life, then get into action.
There are courses and training you can take to improve your self worth.
It Is Up To You
The important thing is to understand that others can have an impact on you if you give them the opportunity.
It only happens when you let them.
You give the authority to disparage you.
When you understand your power, you could better use it to make your life less challenging.
When you also understand that there some people who are ready and willing to take advantage of you.
They are basically bullies…always ready to hurt others.
Once you know what being hurt is, you should not let others hurt you more than the first time.
When they tell you who they are, move away.
It is up to you.
Who Do You Want To Be
There are many types of people out there.
Trying to identify them all is complicated.
But in order to prosper you will need other people.
So how do you not spend your life testing others and instead, move on with yours?
Become the person with a standard of behavior.
Remain steadfast in your commitment to being the person who will not be hurt more than once.
You give them the benefit of your friendship but never with your guard down until they show that they are worthy of your love and trust.
Do You Forgive?
When it comes to your life, forgiveness is great, but can be dangerous.
If someone did not know your worth in the past, they probably are still in that place in their lives.
Then there is nothing to forgive.
If on the other hand they have made changes in their lives such that they understand their own self worth, then it is possible to forgive.
Of course the choice is yours.
You are the one analysing the situaiton and you to make the call.
Usually you can be guided by the fact that people do not usually change.
Your Ideal Life
Knowing your worth and enjoying who you are with others who truly appreciate you is the idea life.
Understand that there will not be too many people fitting into that space.
So appreciate those who make it there and keep them.
It will be difficult to find others to fit into that space.
So once you have them and you understand their worth to you, you have a relationship that many people would die for.
Conclusion
No one can give you more than your self worth.
While you can improve it, it is also a mindset.
So you have it in you just as you know certain children know their self worth from early.
So too, you can develop an appreciation of your own and live your life accordingingly.
Don’t expect many others to respect you if you do not respect yourself and you respect yourself when you know your self worth.
You have the world at your finger tips when you know who you are and what you are about.
That is what self worth gives you.