What you attract in business or in life is very dependent on who you are, what you believe and how you think as an individual.
You control how attractive you become to the things you want in your life.
Some things will quickly fall in place because you are ready and prepared based on the work you did in preparation.
You are the important person here…Yes you can be attractive but you could also repel the things you want.
It all depends of who you are.
Are You An Optimist Or A Pessimist?
An optimist is always looking forward to growth, improvement, and success.
Be An Optimist
When you behave like an optimist, you become attractive to other people who think in that way.
You are always looking towards the best in your life as well as the life of others.
You understand that while bad things can happen, you expect the best at all times and when things do not go well for you, you look for the benefit in the situation.
Not too many people could think that way.
There Are Pessimists Too
If on the other hand you are a pessimist, you will not attract optimists.
Who You Are Determines What You Attract.
Fellow pessimists will find you comforting and therefore be attracted to you and what you do.
However, that attraction is not going to help you grow your business since the pessimist is not positive about the future.
In business you want to have a healthy business attitude in order to stay through the challenges that may confront you before you are rewarded with success.
Fear of failure can impact how you do business and could put you into the camp of a pessimist.
Failure Is Good
It is true that most people are afraid to fail.
But, optimists know or soon learn that failure is their best friend.
If you understand that you learn from your mistakes, you will never run away from making them, so long as you do the learning that accompanies them.
Failure is good for you but the fear of failure is not.
Optimists look forward to the learning after the temporary setbacks.
They know that there is something better coming after the setback.
Which are you? Do you look forward to the time after the setback, when you learn more than before?
Self Belief And Self Esteem
Do you believe in yourself?
Self-belief is the key ingredient to positive energy.
When you powerfully believe in yourself you can and will create anything you want in your life.
And very importantly, you will attract other self-believers.
Belief will put you in the mindset to learn what you need to learn so you can get to where you want to go.
In so doing, you meet other self-believers and your mutual attraction can lead to friendships and partnerships.
A self-believer will find it very difficult to have a long term business relationship with someone who is not.
One benefit of being a self believer is that you are not afraid of rejection.
A person with poor self esteem is more likely to attract people with low self esteem who will fear rejection like it is the plague.
In business if you are not prepared to deal with rejection then there is the likelihood that you will not experience expansion or growth.
Since no person is perfect, you can change some of these hindrances to business success.
There are more people with similar problems than you can imagine, who are now successful.
Take action
That is because, they are doing something about their situation.
What can you do?
First, you have to be aware of your weaknesses.
Awareness allows you to apply fixes to any problem.
So how do you change from being a pessimist to becoming an optimist?
You work on yourself once you understand that who you are determines what you attract.
You do not want to fail in business or in life.
Therefore you work on becoming the person who will not let failure keep you from eventual success.
You affirm multiple times each day that your day will be positive.
Then you get into action taking positive actions along with nurturing positive beliefs.
After some time you will start to think about your goals and where you are going to be when you succeed.
Conclusion
Then you will be more attractive to people who are also looking for a better future.
Similarly, you can work on yourself in the area of belief.
Once you start believing in yourself, you are going to fear rejection less and less.
Fear of rejection may never go away totally.
However, you learn to take action in spite of the fear.
When you get that habit, the one of taking action in spite of your fear, you are well on your way to being the success you want to be.
After working on yourself, it would be much easier to be more attractive to the winners you want in your life and business.